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    Home » Recipes » Vintage Family Recipes

    Southern Coconut Pecan Filling

    Published: Jun 23, 2021 · Modified: Aug 13, 2022 by Liz Mincin · This post may contain affiliate links

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    I find red velvet cake is nowadays almost universally paired with a cream cheese frosting. While this icing is a nice topping to the classic cake, it doesn't hold a candle to the traditional coconut pecan cake filling. My family's southern cake filling makes for a fantastic flavour packed addition to the dessert, whether in cake or cupcake form!

    Using a cookie scoop to add a dollop of coconut pecan filling to the top of red velvet cupcakes.

    Southern Red Velvet Cake Filling

    For most people, red velvet is synonymous with cream cheese frosting. While I'm not against a cream cheese swirl, the classic southern red velvet cake filling deserves greater recognition!

    Coconut Pecan Cake Frosting

    Much like the German Chocolate Cake, the traditional Red Velvet Cake has a coconut and pecan frosting. This is made using a thickened milk mixture, which helps to stabilise butter and sugar.

    I'll be honest, I've had mixed success following my Granny's recipe, without a couple of tweaks! Overall, the key is to stir your milk and flour, heating this until the mixture is thick like a custard. You'll need patience, since this will take a while. Failure to make this sufficiently thick will result in a runny icing that won't set firm.

    Ingredients for coconut pecan filling.

    Tips and Tricks for Coconut Pecan Filling

    1. What type of milk to use?

    I call for evaporated milk and water in making my filling. My Granny's original recipe called for just milk, but I have regularly struggled to make this thicken sufficiently. I prefer using evaporated milk or condensed milk (both with equal part water) as these tend to have a higher fat content than the average milk and thicken more quickly.

    2. How long does this take to thicken?

    This will depend on the heat you are using. Over a medium high heat, the mixture will take around 10 to 15 minutes to thicken. This requires a lot of patience and stirring as you don't want it to stick and congeal to the base of the pan. Once it coats the back of the spoon you know you are almost there. You are looking for a consistency a bit like pastry cream.

    Once removed from the heat and allowed to cool, this should become a relatively firm gel like substance.

    Small saucepan with a mixture of evaporated milk, water and flour.
    Small saucepan with thickening milk and a spoon.
    Testing the thickness of the milk on the back of a spoon, with a saucepan in the background.

    3. Add-ins

    The original recipe simply calls for chopped nuts and canned coconut.

    Personally, for the nuts, I think pecans work best, but you could also try walnuts in this recipe. You'll want to use unsalted nuts, roasting optional.

    As for the coconut, sweetened flaked coconut is one of my favourite ingredients! Unfortunately, I have yet to find a satisfactory replacement in the UK that lives up to Baker's Coconut. Thankfully, I can rely on a relatively steady supply in care packages from my parents or from import stores. When I'm unable to find this, I've used dessicated coconut in this recipe as well with success. You want something that will fold into the filling well, so I would not recommend large toasted flaked coconut.

    Bowl with a mixture of creamed mixture of butter, sugar and thickened milk.
    Adding coconut and pecan to the frosting batter.
    Using a cookie scoop to add a dollop of coconut pecan filling to the top of red velvet cupcakes.
    Twelve red velvet cupcakes with topping of coconut pecan frosting and a sprinkle of flaked coconut.

    FAQs for Coconut Pecan Filling

    I've beaten the milk into the butter and my frosting is still runny, what can I do?

    This is likely a result of not thickening the milk mixture enough. You can try to chill the mix down in the refrigerator for about 15 minutes. This may help it to set up more firmly and enable you to continue. It may look a bit curdled, but it won't impact the flavour!

    I can't find sweetened flaked coconut, what else can I use?

    As an alternative to sweetened flaked coconut, you can use dessicated coconut or canned coconut. I wouldn't recommend large flaked toasted coconut as this is quite dry and won't mix in as well.

    Does this frosting need to be refrigerated?

    Due to the milk and butter content, this frosting should be kept refrigerated. It can be made a day in advance, but shouldn't be made too far in advance to preserve freshness and best flavours.

    If you like this recipe, you may also like:

    • Easy Cream Cheese Frosting
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    Using a cookie scoop to add a dollop of coconut pecan filling to the top of red velvet cupcakes.

    Coconut Pecan Cake Filling

    Liz Mincin
    Coconut pecan cake filling is a classic southern frosting perfect for accompanying red velvet cake!
    5 from 1 vote
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    Prep Time 5 mins
    Cook Time 15 mins
    Cooling 30 mins
    Course Dessert
    Cuisine American
    Servings 12 cupcakes

    Ingredients
      

    • ¼ cup evaporated milk
    • ¼ cup water
    • 1 tablespoon plain flour
    • ½ cup unsalted butter, softened
    • ½ cup sugar
    • ½ teaspoon vanilla
    • ½ cup chopped pecans
    • ½ cup sweetened flaked coconut

    Instructions
     

    • In a small saucepan, add the milk, water and flour. Heat over a medium high heat and whisk until smooth and thickened to the consistency of a custard. Remove from the heat and allow to cool.
    • In a mixing bowl, beat together the sugar and butter until light and creamy.
    • Add the cooled milk mixture to the butter mixture and beat until the consistency of whipped cream.
    • Add the pecans, coconut and vanilla, fold to combine.
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